Success is no accident. It is hard work, perseverance, learning, studying, sacrifice and most of all, love of what you are doing or learning to do. – Pele
SEEKS HER PURPOSE A woman who doesn’t know her purpose is like a fish who doesn’t know how to swim. We are created by God to do amazing things. If we do not know our life’s purpose we will continue to live in mediocrity and worst all our efforts, works and passion will all be in vain. In order to succeed recognition of Ultimate Life’s Purpose is a must.
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MEDITATE (PRAYING) We all know that meditation gives us Clarity of mind and improves our mental health. My personal journey to prayer changed the whole perspective of how I deal with life. Praying to God not just gave me peace of mind but also change me personally on how I face every situation of my life. A successful woman knows the value of taking care of their mental health.
PLANS AHEAD Successful woman knows where she wants to be. PLanning ahead allows us to set a specific and measurable goal. Let these FREE tools help you plan your goals for better chances of achieving it.
Planning is bringing the future into the present so that you can do something about it now.-Alan Lakein
ASSUMES RESPONSIBILITY We are bombarded with so many tasks in our daily lives that keep us “busy”. Sometimes we don’t even realize that we are already ignoring some of our major responsibilities. Like making time with family. Career and student life can be so hectic. Whenever you have free time, grab that opportunity to make popcorn and sit with them during movie time. Many of us considered some of their friends as part of the family. So, why not take time to send them a message, who knows, they might need some encouragement. Another responsibility that we usually neglect is our responsibility to take care of the needy. There’s a whole lot of responsibility that we ought to do as a human being that we choose to ignore. Successful women are not afraid to extend their hands to the people around them.
DO NOT COMPLAIN People who complain are those who are discontented with their life. In any situation, complaining can only make things worse. Whenever you find yourself complaining, remind yourself that you have the capability to change the situation. Work harder.
What you’re supposed to do when you don’t like a thing is change it. If you can’t change it, change the way you think about it. Don’t Complain. – Maya Angelou
LISTENS TO CRITICISMS Accepting criticism is a difficult thing. But when you allow the possibility that other can see something that you don’t realize, it helps you change your perspective towards criticism. Remember that growth is not possible when you close your ears to constructive criticisms. Listening to criticism is healthy because it stretches our capability to heed to correction. It is a guide for us to do the right thing. When you don’t take what the critiques have to say, you have high chances of committing the same mistake again. It’s hard to accept criticism when you think highly of yourself. Don’t hush them people who criticize you. Let criticism push you to be a better version of yourself.
DUMPS SELF-DOUBT Throw away all the “I can’t” & “I’m not” and start believing in yourself! You are fearfully and wonderfully made of God. You are functioned to do great things! Doubts are little mites that cripple us. Don’t tell yourself what you can’t do and start doing what you can do now!
“Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will.”
― Suzy Kassem
STOPS LISTENING TO GOSSIP Gossiping is contagious. Gossip can either ruin others life or corrupt you. Free your mind from trash! I like the quote I saw on the web that says “gossip dies when it hits a wise person’s ears.” Make a habit of shutting down conversations that aim to tear others down. You can stop gossiping by saying something positive about the victim.
Listening to Gossip is like accepting stolen property, and it makes you just as guilty of the crime. – Rick Warren
AVOIDS TOXIC FRIENDS Sometimes it’s okay to be alone than being with bunch people who drag your self-esteem down. A successful woman is surrounded by inspiring people. Your friends are your support group. They are the one who encourages you to achieve your goals. Toxic friends are those who constantly bring your spirit down. They discourage your every idea instead of supporting them. Causing more stress rather than reducing them. They make you feel bad instead of edifying you. Successful women know how to have a healthy friendship.
Letting Toxic People Go is not an act of cruelty. It’s an act of self-care.
READS GOOD BOOKS When I say “good books” it doesn’t mean a good novel book. Personally, I only read literature books whenever I want to escape the real world. I’m not saying that it’s wrong to read novel books. But it’s just a realization of mine that instead of being stuck with fantasy why not read books that stretch my practical knowledge about life. Instead of reading a novel why not spend your time reading books about handling your finances, a story of success or books that will increase your faith. Try it and see how your growth will lead you. Successful women know what books to read to grow.
SAVES AND INVESTS Successful women are financially independent. When they are just starting they knew the value of saving and investing. They have a goal in mind that if they save and invest they will be able to make money work for them later on. Work less and spend more time with loved ones.
LIVES SIMPLY Quality of life is not measured by how grand you live it. Luxurious lifestyle can only make you prone to debt, stress, unnecessary commitments, and even fake friends. When you live simply you are also getting rid of meaningless things in your life. You’ll learn how to value eternal things rather than wasting your life on temporary things.
A successful woman is one who can build a firm foundation with bricks that other have thrown at her.
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